Pedestal nights

I cannot believe it has already been a year from my first visit to Club Pedestal in London.  Pedestal changed my life, it opened new horizons.  The night I crossed the door into Club Pedestal was the night that I became fully aware of FemDom.

Club Pedestal is a fetish club in London entirely dedicated to FemDom. Pedestal nights are held at Club Colosseum, near Vauxhall.  The layout of the club lends itself to multiple mischiefs as it spreads across multiple rooms each providing its own entertainment.    There are live performances; face and body painting, tantric massage, a very large dungeon for play, two DJs providing a fantastic atmosphere and house slaves –the ones wearing an apron and red collar- to serve your every whim.  

I must say that my favourite areas at the Pedestal parties are the Dungeon and the Goddess room.  The Dungeon area is enormous with so much equipment that it is difficult to choose where to start having fun.  The trampling cage is usually one of my first stops, I am not yet as good as some acrobatic Mistresses that I have seen in there, but I enjoy trampling over those limp bodies and I believe I am getting better and better at it!  It is simply amazing the high you can get from just walking over someone, feeling the softness or roughness of their skin under your feet, the warmth of their bodies, seeing their faces from above, adoring you, silently asking for more.  I never thought I would enjoy trampling so much.  

The Goddess is another of my favourite stops; there you can enjoy a professional massage provided by therapists from the London Tantric Temple.  For those new to tantric massage, let me tell you that this is said to be the best way to connect your body and mind with your sexual energy.  Does it work?  If you are really curious come and try… you will not regret it.

Club Pedestal is one of the friendliest clubs in London.  If you are new to the fetish scene or if this is your first time visiting the Club why not request a guided tour?  A guided tour will introduce you to the different rooms and people who are there to help you.  My first guided tour to Club Pedestal was offered courtesy of Joanna Lark who kindly lent me one of her slaves to show me around the club and in only a few hours I felt like I belonged there! 

Practical information:
Address:
Club Colosseum,
Market Towers,
1 Nine Elms Lane,
London, SW8 5NQ.

Parking: There is a free car park next to the venue

How to get there:

By British Rail + Tube (Vauxhall) Exit 6, (Victory Line)
By Bus: Club Colosseum is served by buses 2, 36, 88, 44, 77, 77a, 185, 322, 344
Night Buses: N2, N36, N44, N77

Dress Code:

The dress code at Pedestal is open to give carte blanche to your imagination.  I especially like the richness of the dresses and bondage wear and the burlesque clothes.  The first time I went to club Pedestal I wore a leather corset and matching leather skirt.  The second time I was there I favoured a red latex dress.  At pedestal your imagination to dress and express yourself has no limits so make sure you make the most of it. 

If you are not sure what to wear, visit the Pedestal site and have a look at their photo gallery or visit Joanna Lark’s site to buy some good quality leather clothing.

Meeting Goddess Alexia

In the past few weeks I have had the opportunity to meet one of the youngest and most sophisticated Dominatrix in London, Goddess Alexia.  A lady for whom Domination is not only her profession, but her lifestyle, a form of art, a form of therapy (as it brings balance to her client’s life) and of course a form of discovering new means of pleasure.  

Meeting Goddess Alexia has been an eye opener for someone like me who is so new to the fetish scene.  With Goddess Alexia I have learnt one of the most important things about being on the scene: you must be responsible.  Being a Dominatrix is not only about CP and domination, being a Dominatrix involves taking care of your subs as much as you do of yourself.  As she puts it, “only when you learn to control yourself can you dominate others.”

Another thing that I have learnt in the past few weeks is that BDSM is a lifestyle and those who choose to follow it should enjoy it without asking themselves so many questions.  I mean, most newbies enter the BDSM world in search for answers to their tendencies, they try to understand why they like dominating others or being dominated by others; but that is a distraction.  There are no good answers to that question.  Instead of wasting time and effort in trying to understand the basics of human nature, we should just be ourselves and enjoy it. 

Ever since I entered the BDSM world, I have found a new me, a more assertive woman in all aspects of my life; a more relaxed woman with her sexuality and most importantly new ways of pleasure for myself and those who are now following me.   BDSM has opened a new world for me.  I know I am only starting to explore this path, but thanks to new friends like Joanna Lark and Alexia I am enjoying every minute of it.

Goddess Alexia

If you want to meet Goddess Alexia you can find her here where she reveals her secrets in one of her most intimate interviews.  Be careful though and enter at your own risk, I cannot guarantee that you will come out untouched from Goddess Alexia’s spell…

 Mistress Alexia