The Paris fetish tour

 

I cannot believe a year has passed already since my first fetish party in Paris at the Croisiere Elastique.  That was an absolutely fantastic night on board the River’s King cruising along the Seine and seeing some of the Parisian best spots from an entirely new perspective, that of the Parisian fetish scene.  I had been in Paris many times and done the bateau mouches a few times, but a fetish croisiere was entirely a new experience.  As Francis Dedobbeleer - creator and organizer of the croisiere elastique- says, it is “Un joyeux bordel”

The Croisiere Elastique

The Croisiere Elastique was my first official event attended in Paris and it was one of the best experiences I’ve ever had.  Everyone was really friendly and welcoming and it despite being my first night in the Paris scene I managed to make a few friends and find new subs willing to submit to my will just for my pleasure.  The night started early with only around 350 fetishists and BDSM enthusiasts sharing drinks and a buffet during an hour and a half long cruise along the Seine.  Later on, when the cruise finished another load of fetishists joined us for the real party and wildness. 

I enjoyed the Croisiere Elastique so much that I am planning to this year’s cruise on May the 14^th.   This time however, my Parisian adventure comes with a twist, not only will I be attending with some of my French subs, but I have also invited my sister in mischief Mistress Joanna Lark to come along and discover the Paris fetish scene.  Of course we couldn’t come all the way from London on our own… no, no, no.  We need pampering and looking after during the short eurostar trip so we’ll be coming with a small entourage of subs to care for our every need and whim including some “train entertainment”.  The “chuchu” train is going to be a fetish train when we get on board! 

If you think that you have something special to offer ME to make my trip more enjoyable and want to join in the Paris experience, you can leave a comment or contact me directly to assess your abilities and see if you are fit to become part of our Parisian tour.

To see for yourself some photos and videos of last year’s boat party, you can visit the Croisiere elastique’s official site.  

Pedestal nights

I cannot believe it has already been a year from my first visit to Club Pedestal in London.  Pedestal changed my life, it opened new horizons.  The night I crossed the door into Club Pedestal was the night that I became fully aware of FemDom.

Club Pedestal is a fetish club in London entirely dedicated to FemDom. Pedestal nights are held at Club Colosseum, near Vauxhall.  The layout of the club lends itself to multiple mischiefs as it spreads across multiple rooms each providing its own entertainment.    There are live performances; face and body painting, tantric massage, a very large dungeon for play, two DJs providing a fantastic atmosphere and house slaves –the ones wearing an apron and red collar- to serve your every whim.  

I must say that my favourite areas at the Pedestal parties are the Dungeon and the Goddess room.  The Dungeon area is enormous with so much equipment that it is difficult to choose where to start having fun.  The trampling cage is usually one of my first stops, I am not yet as good as some acrobatic Mistresses that I have seen in there, but I enjoy trampling over those limp bodies and I believe I am getting better and better at it!  It is simply amazing the high you can get from just walking over someone, feeling the softness or roughness of their skin under your feet, the warmth of their bodies, seeing their faces from above, adoring you, silently asking for more.  I never thought I would enjoy trampling so much.  

The Goddess is another of my favourite stops; there you can enjoy a professional massage provided by therapists from the London Tantric Temple.  For those new to tantric massage, let me tell you that this is said to be the best way to connect your body and mind with your sexual energy.  Does it work?  If you are really curious come and try… you will not regret it.

Club Pedestal is one of the friendliest clubs in London.  If you are new to the fetish scene or if this is your first time visiting the Club why not request a guided tour?  A guided tour will introduce you to the different rooms and people who are there to help you.  My first guided tour to Club Pedestal was offered courtesy of Joanna Lark who kindly lent me one of her slaves to show me around the club and in only a few hours I felt like I belonged there! 

Practical information:
Address:
Club Colosseum,
Market Towers,
1 Nine Elms Lane,
London, SW8 5NQ.

Parking: There is a free car park next to the venue

How to get there:

By British Rail + Tube (Vauxhall) Exit 6, (Victory Line)
By Bus: Club Colosseum is served by buses 2, 36, 88, 44, 77, 77a, 185, 322, 344
Night Buses: N2, N36, N44, N77

Dress Code:

The dress code at Pedestal is open to give carte blanche to your imagination.  I especially like the richness of the dresses and bondage wear and the burlesque clothes.  The first time I went to club Pedestal I wore a leather corset and matching leather skirt.  The second time I was there I favoured a red latex dress.  At pedestal your imagination to dress and express yourself has no limits so make sure you make the most of it. 

If you are not sure what to wear, visit the Pedestal site and have a look at their photo gallery or visit Joanna Lark’s site to buy some good quality leather clothing.

Meeting Goddess Alexia

In the past few weeks I have had the opportunity to meet one of the youngest and most sophisticated Dominatrix in London, Goddess Alexia.  A lady for whom Domination is not only her profession, but her lifestyle, a form of art, a form of therapy (as it brings balance to her client’s life) and of course a form of discovering new means of pleasure.  

Meeting Goddess Alexia has been an eye opener for someone like me who is so new to the fetish scene.  With Goddess Alexia I have learnt one of the most important things about being on the scene: you must be responsible.  Being a Dominatrix is not only about CP and domination, being a Dominatrix involves taking care of your subs as much as you do of yourself.  As she puts it, “only when you learn to control yourself can you dominate others.”

Another thing that I have learnt in the past few weeks is that BDSM is a lifestyle and those who choose to follow it should enjoy it without asking themselves so many questions.  I mean, most newbies enter the BDSM world in search for answers to their tendencies, they try to understand why they like dominating others or being dominated by others; but that is a distraction.  There are no good answers to that question.  Instead of wasting time and effort in trying to understand the basics of human nature, we should just be ourselves and enjoy it. 

Ever since I entered the BDSM world, I have found a new me, a more assertive woman in all aspects of my life; a more relaxed woman with her sexuality and most importantly new ways of pleasure for myself and those who are now following me.   BDSM has opened a new world for me.  I know I am only starting to explore this path, but thanks to new friends like Joanna Lark and Alexia I am enjoying every minute of it.

Goddess Alexia

If you want to meet Goddess Alexia you can find her here where she reveals her secrets in one of her most intimate interviews.  Be careful though and enter at your own risk, I cannot guarantee that you will come out untouched from Goddess Alexia’s spell…

 Mistress Alexia

Ballet Boots pain or pleasure

I don’t know if the Marquis de Sade ever wore ballet boots (yes, some men do!) but I share his opinion, “It is always by way of pain one arrives at pleasure”.



A couple of weeks ago I got a very exciting present, a pair of red ballet boots.  I had never worn ballet boots before, so I wasn’t quite sure what to expect from them.  I had heard that they were painful to wear; I had heard that you could even permanently damage your feet if you use them for too long periods of time or if you wear the wrong size.  But none of those comments put me off; I was just dead excited about wearing my first pair of ballet boots.    





If you have never heard about ballet boots before, just look at my photo wearing them.  Aren’t they lovely?


 

If you have never heard of Ballet boots before now, Ballet boots are a type of extreme high heel.  The heel is usually 7 inches (18 centimetres) or more, depending on your shoe size.  They are very uncomfortable to wear –to say the least- they can even be very painful as you are standing on your toes and your foot is fully stretched which can cause cramping on your calves.  
  
So why does anyone wear them?  The answer is simple, for pain and pleasure.  Ballet boots act for many as a fetish object for sexual gratification heightening the erotic appeal with the elements of bondage and submission.  

Ballet boots are not meant to be worn like everyday high heel shoes; they are used mainly for BDSM play.  They are mainly worn by a submissive or a slave as they are very restrictive.  But they can also be worn by masochist tops.  


I have worn mine first out of curiosity to see how it felt to be so restricted, but I admit that I also wore them as a fetish fashion accessory.  








If they caused ME pain and discomfort, I made sure that they had a similar effect –if not worst- on the sub that was worshipping my ballet boots!  

 

If you too want to wear ballet boots I have gather here some tips, to make your experience more enjoyable! 

Training a slave: Public humilliation.

Training With Miss Anath


The day after Club Pedestal I was reading a book “Training with Miss Abernathy” a present I had received the night before from one of  Mistress Joanna Lark’s subs, when I found a note with my new slaves’ phone number. I was curious about his capabilities, so I sent him a message ordering him to come and pick me up immediately to entertain me. After all... what else can you do on a Friday afternoon in London?

 I think that Londoners are not use to seeing a woman walking with a personal servant, we had lots of people looking at us in shock.  I enjoyed having my new personal slave opening doors for me, carrying my bags, serving me as a seat, disposing of my chewing gum (in his mouth), and taking care of my every step so other people wouldn’t get to close to me.


Do you want to know what happened after? Let's say that I had fun trying on some public humilliation...


You can find more about how I train my "wannabes" in Training with Miss Anath







At the Natural History Museum:

What is CBT ?

I was browsing through Joanna Lark’s website today to see what new and exciting toys she had added to her collection when I found a strange looking implement for CBT called The Humbler.

 

New as I am to BDSM, it didn’t matter how long or in what angle I looked at this toy, I couldn’t imagine how to use it.

For a start, I had never heard the term CBT before so I contacted Mistress Joanna Lark trying to find an answer to my question.   

So, what is CBT?  Well it is simply Cock and Ball Torture.  Easy, isn’t it?  Yes, Joanna always makes it sound fun and easy with her explanations.   

To some extent I had already practised some of this but I didn’t know that there was a name and a whole set of toys and rules for this practice.  I didn’t know that when I slapped a man’s genitals with my riding crop I was practising CBT. 

Like most BDSM practices, there are many ways of CBT depending on the pain threshold of the person involved.  CBT can go from simply causing discomfort by squeezing a man’s genitals with one’s hand as if squeezing a rubber ball, to slapping, pinching, using clamps, weights, electric stimulation, binding, waxing, etc.  It all depends on your wicked imagination and your sub’s pain threshold.

 

Warning: During CBT practices the penis and testicles can be easily or permanently damaged.  Mistakes can lead to ruptures, tears, or other disfiguring and disabling results.  Caution must be observed when practicing this activity.

For more information on CBT you can visit malesubmission.com

The Riding Crop

For years I had use riding crops for their original use, riding horses.  But only after I discover my BDSM side I knew why I had always been so at ease with horse whips.  


 If you want to know the full story of how I came to find my favourite "tool" check out my fetish adventures with Joanna Lark to learn about The Riding Crop



And if you get tempted to get your own or you just want to  browse among a few whips and paddles until you find your tool you will have  fun here where you will find everything a Dominatrix wants.  The best quality leather whips and paddles for only the best! 

For more fun toys to spice up your sexual life you can visit me here

Club Pedestal: a new outlook on life

If you ask me for the Best Night Out in London I would recommend Club Pedestal.

Club Pedestal: a new outlook on life

Definitely the Best Night Out in London, Club Pedestal is a place where women are in complete safety to explore their fantasies and men are at the service of women for whatever they might want.  You just need to order whatever you fancy -a drink, a foot massage, an ashtrayman, whatever your fantasies push you to desire- and you'll be served by Pedestal's house slaves.

As a woman, even if you are not into BDSM you will feel empowered after spending a night at Club Pedestal.  After all, what woman wouldn't dream with being adored by men? Here your dreams come true when you enter a world of fantasy and female domination.  You can get your tickets for the next Pedestal night from Joanna Lark.

It is here where I discovered my tool,  the riding crop among a variety of whipps and floggers.  Do you want to know how I discovered that the riding crop was my fetish tool? Come and read my adventures at Pedestal.

BDSM Whirlpool In My Head

Is it natural to be attracted to BDSM practices? Why some people take into BDSM so easily while others reject it?

What type of person takes pleasure in BDSM? These and many other question plus a few answers to finding my true self in BDSM Whirlpool In My Head