My wooden collection

A few weeks ago a good friend of mine came to visit me bringing me the most unusual of presents, a collection of wooden dildos handcrafted by himself.  In my short time as a Dominatrix, I have received some unusual presents, but this one must be on top of my list.  The wooden dildos were absolutely beautiful, crafted in pine, hazelnut and ash. 

I was delighted with my new collection of wooden dildos and couldn’t wait to try them.  My friend told me that he had made all the efforts to make them safe to use, including the use of organic varnish.  As soon as he left I organized a dildo party to try my new toys. 

The verdict…  We loved them!  One of them was extremely big for the girls but it was fun to see one of my sissies playing with it.  The other ones were smaller and more “manageable”.  My favourite was the little dark dildo made in ash, it is very smooth to the touch but hard enough to assure hours of fun play and it blends with your body’s temperature.  Another favourite was the one with metal studs, especially after we put it in the fridge for a while to cool down the metal.

If you want to try some wooden pleasure email me with your details and specs.  Now you too can own an exclusive wooden dildo handcrafted to your own specifications.  Prices start at 50 euros (plus P&P) for the “little wooden teaser” and go up to 80 euros for the “big monster in pine”. 

Miss Anath's room

Good morning! "Will you walk into my parlour?" Said Miss Anath to the slave;

"'Tis the prettiest little parlour That ever you did spy.

The way into my parlour Is up a winding stair;

And I have many curious things To show you when you're there."

"Oh, no, no," said the little slave;

 "To ask me is in vain; For who goes up Your winding stair Can ne'er come down again."

Alice in Chains



Alice by Frank Brunner

It happened one afternoon after a visit to the library. Alice was sitting on the window sill in her dorm reading a book when  she saw a woman in a black military catsuit walking in the garden.
She didn't know why but she felt compelled to open the window and follow her. The lady in the PVC catsuit walked across the garden towards a garden shed, opened the door and went in.

Alice followed her into the shed and much to her surprise, the walls were covered with bondage toys. She followed the lady in the black catsuit through a long corridor with whips, floggers and chains floating in the air. She tried to grab a spiked leather suspender belt floating in front of her when she realized that her pink pyjamas had vanished and instead she was wearing a very restrictive leather bondage underbust corset, a type of bdsm harness.


Do you want to know what happened to Alice?  You can read the full story here

The Boat Party And Anath’s First Rope Bondage Experience

The Boat Party And Anath’s First Rope Bondage Experience

Now you can read here all about my first Bondage experience at the boat party last year in London, in Joanna Lark's blog.

The Paris fetish tour

 

I cannot believe a year has passed already since my first fetish party in Paris at the Croisiere Elastique.  That was an absolutely fantastic night on board the River’s King cruising along the Seine and seeing some of the Parisian best spots from an entirely new perspective, that of the Parisian fetish scene.  I had been in Paris many times and done the bateau mouches a few times, but a fetish croisiere was entirely a new experience.  As Francis Dedobbeleer - creator and organizer of the croisiere elastique- says, it is “Un joyeux bordel”

The Croisiere Elastique

The Croisiere Elastique was my first official event attended in Paris and it was one of the best experiences I’ve ever had.  Everyone was really friendly and welcoming and it despite being my first night in the Paris scene I managed to make a few friends and find new subs willing to submit to my will just for my pleasure.  The night started early with only around 350 fetishists and BDSM enthusiasts sharing drinks and a buffet during an hour and a half long cruise along the Seine.  Later on, when the cruise finished another load of fetishists joined us for the real party and wildness. 

I enjoyed the Croisiere Elastique so much that I am planning to this year’s cruise on May the 14^th.   This time however, my Parisian adventure comes with a twist, not only will I be attending with some of my French subs, but I have also invited my sister in mischief Mistress Joanna Lark to come along and discover the Paris fetish scene.  Of course we couldn’t come all the way from London on our own… no, no, no.  We need pampering and looking after during the short eurostar trip so we’ll be coming with a small entourage of subs to care for our every need and whim including some “train entertainment”.  The “chuchu” train is going to be a fetish train when we get on board! 

If you think that you have something special to offer ME to make my trip more enjoyable and want to join in the Paris experience, you can leave a comment or contact me directly to assess your abilities and see if you are fit to become part of our Parisian tour.

To see for yourself some photos and videos of last year’s boat party, you can visit the Croisiere elastique’s official site.  

Meeting Mistress Anath at Pedestal

sub phil meets Mistress Anath at Pedestal.  

Do you want to know how he felt meeting me?  Keep reading and you will find out...

Serving Mistress Anath at Pedestal

Mistress Anath at Pedestal  

Club Pedestal is a very popular Femme Domme club in London with hundreds of beautiful Dommes dressed in all their finery in attendance. So when i say that on seeing Mistress Anath, i was struck dumb by Her physical beauty, it is no throwaway compliment. Even in such notable company, Mistress Anath's beauty shone out. Dressed in a mesmerising body stocking and Strappy Leather Bondage Thongs With Waist Cincher, her divine physical form was simply breathtaking. But on approaching Her, it was Her inner dominance and strength that shone through. 

Here is a Lady who clearly knows what she likes and how she likes Her subs to serve. How lucky i was that in Her beguiling Spanish accent she firmly told me to stand against a metal frame and await her attendance. Approaching me, there was a mischevious twinkle in her eye as she calmly told me that she hoped i would be able to please Her. Oh, how i hoped too! Ordering me to strip down, she began using a succession of Floggers and Paddles to thrash this lowly english slave on the back and buttocks. 

Each blow was delivered with accuracy and obvious relish. 

At one point  i heard Her laugh and was elated to discover that she was clearly enjoying Herself. As the blows intensified, i could feel all eyes in the room on us (or more accurately, on Her, given that she is the most stunning Mistress imaginable). 

In between the harsh strokes, Mistress used Her fingers to expertly squeeze and torture Her subs nipples - light carresses turned to painful twists and pinching - with my subsequent squirming and gasping seeming to please Her more. With each blow that rained down, this sub was plunged further into sub space, desperately wanting to soak up every ounce of his beautiful Mistress's venom. 

With Mistress finally satisfied, i was ordered to dress and get on my knees and give thanks before being used as Her stool. Making me the most grateful seat in London. Believe me, Mistress's Anath's beauty and sadism is a potent mixture. Once she gets her claws into you, there is nothing you will not endure to make Her happy.


sub phil

Burns night with Mistress Anath

Burns night at the factory seen by my new slave, fat pole.

 

In the Burns night, i met for the first time MISTRESS ANATH and MISTRESS JOANNA LARK.  i knew that I was going to end up on the floor groveling at the FEET and HEELS of a MISTRESS, as in every FETISH PARTY I attend, but i did not know that i would be so used, abused, and humiliated severely by MISTRESS ANATH. It was a night when a worthless useless piece of fat/dirt fat pole and toilet face, as she calls me, was noticed. i became a slave to ANATH.  

Shoes from the Joanna Lark's collection

i spent my entire life being humiliated, pissed on, spit on, raped, slapped, verbally abused, by POWERFULL DOMINATRIXES, and when i saw MISTRESS ANATH with HER sexy LEGS and STOCKINGS and POWERFUL OPEN TOE HEELS  entering the party, i saw myself serving her. i was not sure if she would be tough enough with me and verbally abusive, but it was definately my hope as a scum slave to lick the DIRT from the BOTTOM of HER HEELS and SERVE HER in this party. i got close to HER and i was shivering with fear as i always do approaching a MISTRESS. SHE did not notice me of course, this was understandable as no MISTRESS will notice a useless piece of dirt like me. MISTRESS ANATH is so high in status and I am down there like a worthless rodent. I worked hard to get HER ATTENTION and finally SHE noticed my worthless self, i approached HER and dropped on my knees, shivering and looked at HER FEET. SHE pointed with HER FINGERS to HER TOES and the rest was history.

 

licking Mistress Anath's heels

I licked the bottom of HER HEELS and SHOES clean as people in the party looked on.  

MISTRESS ANATH tied me up to the ceiling and started using me as a pole for her other human toys to dance.  She called me fat pole. SHE organized a pole dancing contest and was laughing and making fun of my worthless existence with HER FRIENDS.  

Then, SHE plugged my mouth with a penis gag  SHE whipped me on a Saint Andrew’s Cross.  SHE spat on me and slapped me repeatedly with force in public. It was a dream come true for a worthless piece of dirt like me to be somehow useful to a POWERFUL MISTRESS like MISTRESS ANATH. She was having fun with her friends and that was my most precious reward.  i begged HER to piss on me or use me in a video or photo shoot. i hope she will. SHE will obviously use me to her benefit.

 

As i prepare to go to the next Pedestal Party, I have been communicating with MISTRESS ANATH via email. SHE always reminds me in HER EMAILS how worthless I am. SHE calls me a fat pole, worthless, dirt, trash, scum, stupid, toilet, piece of fat…etc. With every email i get from HER i realized that I belong to HER, SHE knows how to treat me and SHE can be forceful and violent with her slaves. i cannot wait to clean the dirt on the BOTTOM of HER HEELS, SUCK HER TOES, to be PISSED on by HER, slapped by HER and humiliated in public. After all, this is my only purpose in life and what i was made for; to be a rodent cuckold slave at HER FEET.

Pathetic Slave Worshipping Mistress Joanna Lark On Her Roof Dungeon

I just love this BDSM harness with spikes in strategic areas.   It is a must have item in a Mistress wardrobe.  It can be worn in so many different ways that you will never be bored with it ;-) 

 

Pathetic Slave Worshipping Mistress Joanna Lark On Her Roof Dungeon

Pedestal: Where women rule

My first time at Pedestal was unforgetable, now you can read all the details of my first night at a fetish party in the Skin Two Latex Extra  Magazine pages 15-16  
Get your free copy here http://www.skintwo.biz/latextra/34/ 

Here is a peek:

"The day Joanna invited me to Club Pedestal I couldn’t believe my luck.  Joanna was proposing to take me to a club where women are adored by men, a place where women are in complete safety to explore their fantasies and men are at the service of women for whatever they might want.  I couldn’t wait to see Club Pedestal I was excited but at the same time scared to go to a fetish club, I had never been to one, so I ask Becky, a friend of mine to come with me.

continue reading...

Pedestal nights

I cannot believe it has already been a year from my first visit to Club Pedestal in London.  Pedestal changed my life, it opened new horizons.  The night I crossed the door into Club Pedestal was the night that I became fully aware of FemDom.

Club Pedestal is a fetish club in London entirely dedicated to FemDom. Pedestal nights are held at Club Colosseum, near Vauxhall.  The layout of the club lends itself to multiple mischiefs as it spreads across multiple rooms each providing its own entertainment.    There are live performances; face and body painting, tantric massage, a very large dungeon for play, two DJs providing a fantastic atmosphere and house slaves –the ones wearing an apron and red collar- to serve your every whim.  

I must say that my favourite areas at the Pedestal parties are the Dungeon and the Goddess room.  The Dungeon area is enormous with so much equipment that it is difficult to choose where to start having fun.  The trampling cage is usually one of my first stops, I am not yet as good as some acrobatic Mistresses that I have seen in there, but I enjoy trampling over those limp bodies and I believe I am getting better and better at it!  It is simply amazing the high you can get from just walking over someone, feeling the softness or roughness of their skin under your feet, the warmth of their bodies, seeing their faces from above, adoring you, silently asking for more.  I never thought I would enjoy trampling so much.  

The Goddess is another of my favourite stops; there you can enjoy a professional massage provided by therapists from the London Tantric Temple.  For those new to tantric massage, let me tell you that this is said to be the best way to connect your body and mind with your sexual energy.  Does it work?  If you are really curious come and try… you will not regret it.

Club Pedestal is one of the friendliest clubs in London.  If you are new to the fetish scene or if this is your first time visiting the Club why not request a guided tour?  A guided tour will introduce you to the different rooms and people who are there to help you.  My first guided tour to Club Pedestal was offered courtesy of Joanna Lark who kindly lent me one of her slaves to show me around the club and in only a few hours I felt like I belonged there! 

Practical information:
Address:
Club Colosseum,
Market Towers,
1 Nine Elms Lane,
London, SW8 5NQ.

Parking: There is a free car park next to the venue

How to get there:

By British Rail + Tube (Vauxhall) Exit 6, (Victory Line)
By Bus: Club Colosseum is served by buses 2, 36, 88, 44, 77, 77a, 185, 322, 344
Night Buses: N2, N36, N44, N77

Dress Code:

The dress code at Pedestal is open to give carte blanche to your imagination.  I especially like the richness of the dresses and bondage wear and the burlesque clothes.  The first time I went to club Pedestal I wore a leather corset and matching leather skirt.  The second time I was there I favoured a red latex dress.  At pedestal your imagination to dress and express yourself has no limits so make sure you make the most of it. 

If you are not sure what to wear, visit the Pedestal site and have a look at their photo gallery or visit Joanna Lark’s site to buy some good quality leather clothing.

Leather dresses

Leather dresses are glamorous; they feel luxurious against your skin.  They look expensive and extremely top quality.  Leather clothing is a delight to the senses for its soft touch and its unmistakable scent.  Thankfully for all leather lovers, Leather dresses are a must have this season.

If you are seriously into fashion and kink you need at least one leather dress or leather skirt in your wardrobe and take advantage that now you can use it not only for kinky do’s but also for everyday wear.  Now you can wear your leather dress to the office, to a business lunch of for clubbing.  It all depends on how you accessorize your leather dress. 

To help you find the most alluring leather dresses Joanna Lark has selected for her exclusive online store 2 “must haves” for this season.  Make sure you check them out, they are hot, they are sexy and above all they are made with the best quality leather available.  

Leather Dress With Lycra Insert

The first leather dress from Joanna Lark's online store is the Leather Dress With Lycra Inserts.  This dress was selected by Vogue magazine for a photo session with a very famous singer and songwriter.  This leather dress is cut to flatten your stomach and push up your breasts.

Black Mini Dress In Leather

The second dress is a very naugthy number.  The Black Mini Dress In Leather.  Made with top quality soft leather and designed to turn heads with its cheeky cut, this dress can be as naughty as you want it to be.  The frontal “openings” on the dress can be adjusted with a buckle to assure a perfect fit while on the back you can choose your level of exposure with a zip

A leather dress is an investment, if properly cared for, you will be able to wear it for years and it will still look its best. 

Caring for your latex clothing

If you are new to wearing latex you must know that you have to take special care of your latex clothes if you want them to last. A properly cared for latex outfit can last for years.  To keep your latex clothing in good condition you must ensure that it is handled with care.  

Here are some helpful tips to keep your latex clothes in good condition:

1. Do not pull your latex clothing because latex tears very easily.
2. Do not apply perfume, body sprays or oils when wearing your latex clothing.  Latex can be affected by all of those as well as any other liquids.
3. Always use plenty of talc on the inside of the garment when you are putting on your latex clothing.
4. Long fingernails can be hazardous as latex tears very easily.
5. Light coloured latex can stain very easily, take extra care.
6. Keep away from extreme heat.  Direct contact with radiators, candles, open fires, etc, will melt your latex clothes.
7. Keep your latex clothes clean.  Sweat (salt and water) weaken latex; make sure you wash your latex after use.
8. When removing your garments wash them with lukewarm water and rinse them thoroughly in the shower.  Turn them inside out and allow drying.  Preferably hang it on a plastic hanger to allow drying.  Be careful not to leave your garment in water for too long.
9. Once dried the latex garment should be thoroughly dried and powdered with talc on the inside,
10. Do not expose to direct sunlight to avoid discolouring your latex.
11. Store your latex clothes in a cool, dry place out of the light, covered by a black bin liner.
12. Each time you wear your latex garment put more talc on the inside.
13. Polish the exterior of your latex clothes only when necessary, silicone sprays and lubricants used to make latex shine will make it almost impossible to repair if needed. 

 

Why do I wear latex clothes?

Latex fascinates people because most of the time when worn it tends to be skin-tight, producing a "second skin" effect with the added bonus of having a strong hold of your body, therefore redefining your silhouette, a bit like a corset. 

To learn more about why and how I wear my latex click here 

Are You Gagging For It?

Ever wondered how to play with gags? Now you can learn from the experts.  Learn here everything you need to know about gags from what type of gag to go for, to the fundamental rules to using gags safely

Are You Gagging For It? Countess De Jager Tells You How To Do It…

Remember that There are a several types of gags on the market and some can be found at Joanna Lark’s bondage store a gag, if used in the right way can involve sexual arousal and gratification towards sexual behavior by consenting adults. 

Floozie me and Liberation

Someone asked me the other day about my favourite shops in London.  The answer is that I have many but among my favourite ones I can mention Floozie me and Liberation.

Floozie me must be one of the cutest sex-shops I have ever seen.  Located at 23 Islington Green, London N1 8DU, Flozzie me is a provocative combination of eroticism and sophistication.  Every time I enter Floozie me I feel as if I am entering a boudoir because it is exquisitely decorated and the shop assistants are amazingly inviting and friendly.  The first time I went in with Joanna Lark, Gary the owner made me immediately feel at home.  He made us a cup of coffee and let us browse through delicate lingerie, kinky shoes, outsized sex toys and fetish gear as if we were in our own home.  

Costume at Floozie Me

A big surprise at the Floozie Me basement

If you want to visit Floozie me, you can enquiry about opening hours on 020 7226 8095.  On the top floor you will find top quality lingerie, shoes and boots from Joanna Lark’s collection, naughty costumes and “nicks & nacks” like the “Tickle her pink” clitoral pleasure gel or the tightening gels.  On the bottom floor you will find all the “harder” stuff like sex toys, dvds and fetish gear.  We always have lots of fun every time we visit Floozie me, whether it is trying on some PVC clothing, or trying out the leather equipment like masks, restraints and other kinky things; or just to have a chat with the friendly shop assistants who are always willing to help and advise you on their products.  

Floozie Me

Another of my favourite shops is Liberation in Covent Garden.  Located at 49 Shelton St

London WC2H 9HE, Liberation has an amazing Fetish basement.  If you are into latex then Liberation is the place to visit as it offers the complete range of Libidex latex wear as well as other leading rubber labels.  In Liberation, you can buy latex clothes either off the rails or you can order your own made-to-measure latex gear.  Liberation also stocks a thrilling choice of pervy collectables, accessories and gifts - something to suit all tastes and every desire! 

If you happen to be near Covent Garden, do not miss a visit to Liberation, especially to the sales rail which is always loaded with a fantastic selection of rubberwear at bargain prices.

My sissy maid: benita

Hello this is Goddess Mistress Anath's sissy benita.

Last week I was lucky enough to have seen Mistress Anath on her webcam, words cannot describe how beautiful and amazing she was but im going to have a good go....

Her voice and looks really do compare to that of a goddess, I was so excited to talk with her my little cock straining in its chastity device at such true beauty before my very eyes.

I was nervous at first then when she started to instruct me I got so excited and so turned on, I'm so lucky to be her sissy slave, her looks are stunning and her voice is so sexy, instantly I felt overpowered and brain washed willing to do anything she told me to do.

I know now that she has so much control over pathetic worthless excuses of men like myself she is a true Goddess.

Her face and body are so attractive I would of done anything for her, I would love to worship her body and her perfect bottom.

After we had spoke I realized that I want to commit to her fully as her slave. I'm sissy benita here to serve her in any way she see's fit.

I really do feel so lucky to be in the position that I am in, I'm not ashamed in anyway at all after seeing her its made me so much more eager to serve and please her.

Mitress Anath with her whipp

Mistress Anath is so perfect in every way, she's a fine woman my eyes lit up when she appeared on the screen it was hypnotizing as she was smiling at her sissy I couldn't control myself and started to touch my pathetic manhood through its cage.....Mistress then said with authority ''sissy stop touching'' I instantly did as I was told, not wanting to upset and displease my Goddess.

I can say now Mistress Anath has her slave like putty in her hands. Im going to do Anything and everything Mistress tells me to do, I know we are apart but I feel such a bond and eagerness to serve and please her, I can assure her any tasks she sets they will be carried out immediately with great thoroughness, After seeing the Goddess Mistress Anath my mind is under her spell and control, a woman of such beauty can only be a Goddess she is my superior in every way shape and form. 

Mistress Anath im at your feet begging for more Ma'am......

Your sissy Benita x x x

Meeting Goddess Alexia

In the past few weeks I have had the opportunity to meet one of the youngest and most sophisticated Dominatrix in London, Goddess Alexia.  A lady for whom Domination is not only her profession, but her lifestyle, a form of art, a form of therapy (as it brings balance to her client’s life) and of course a form of discovering new means of pleasure.  

Meeting Goddess Alexia has been an eye opener for someone like me who is so new to the fetish scene.  With Goddess Alexia I have learnt one of the most important things about being on the scene: you must be responsible.  Being a Dominatrix is not only about CP and domination, being a Dominatrix involves taking care of your subs as much as you do of yourself.  As she puts it, “only when you learn to control yourself can you dominate others.”

Another thing that I have learnt in the past few weeks is that BDSM is a lifestyle and those who choose to follow it should enjoy it without asking themselves so many questions.  I mean, most newbies enter the BDSM world in search for answers to their tendencies, they try to understand why they like dominating others or being dominated by others; but that is a distraction.  There are no good answers to that question.  Instead of wasting time and effort in trying to understand the basics of human nature, we should just be ourselves and enjoy it. 

Ever since I entered the BDSM world, I have found a new me, a more assertive woman in all aspects of my life; a more relaxed woman with her sexuality and most importantly new ways of pleasure for myself and those who are now following me.   BDSM has opened a new world for me.  I know I am only starting to explore this path, but thanks to new friends like Joanna Lark and Alexia I am enjoying every minute of it.

Goddess Alexia

If you want to meet Goddess Alexia you can find her here where she reveals her secrets in one of her most intimate interviews.  Be careful though and enter at your own risk, I cannot guarantee that you will come out untouched from Goddess Alexia’s spell…

 Mistress Alexia

Want to be my slave?

Hello everyone, my name is Ben / sissy. My Mistress has not come up with a new name to call me yet, but she will in a few days and then i shall refer to myself as that. 

Im so happy to tell you all that i'am now Mistress Anath's sissy maid i have just taken photo's for Mistress to put on her facebook page and im writing this as a task and to worship her. im so lucky to be given this great challenge and will do anything she asks of me, she is so sexy a true goddess over men and she rightfully has that control over me, im going to make her so happy humiliating myself to please her.

i'm 24 years of age fully shaved and going to love being her sissy maid doing anything im ordered to do, don t you think im so lucky? i mean look at her isnt she just a .....GODDESS!

im a pathetic excuse of a man and Mistress will mold me into whatever she wants through training and tasks, she will have me right in her hands like putty before long i can guaranty it. il be willing to do anything for her, and she knows it...dont you Mistress?

Mistress has the most amazing body legs pert little bum so hot!!

im on my knee's waiting for the next instructions Mistress hope you are pleased with your slave Ma'am, good bye every one for now.............

Mistress Anath's sissy maid xxx

Fancy a red Corset ?

Red is my favourite colour. I have red dresses, red boots, red underwear and outerwear. The only thing I don’t have red is the hair, which is the reason why I look stunning in red. I have natural dark hair and when dressed in red I just look fantastic; the combination of dark hair flowing carelessly over my shoulders and down my back teamed up with the bright red of my clothes are simply awesome.

Here I’ll introduce you to some of my favourite Red corsets and I’ll even tell you where you can get them if you feel like having a torrid encounter.

My all time favourite red corset comes from Joanna Lark's store.  It is the Burlesque Red Corset (photo on the right).   

This red corset just shouts vintage and romance while it gives you an awesome silhouette. Joanna Lark’s corsets are made to last and make a lasting impression and although her corsets invite you to naughty games, she is not playing when choosing the best available corsets to give you an hourglass figure. 

 

For more of my favourite red corsets you can click here

where you will find red leather corsets, red Reversible corset, red PVC corsets and of course the romantic red satin corset for that special date!

 

 

 

What is Latex Body paint?

Latex Body Painting
  

Liquid Latex is a rubber that is initially packaged in liquid form.  It self dries in about 5 to 10 minutes when painted directly onto the skin or over clothing forming a sheet of latex on any surface of any shape. 
It is fantastic to create custom wearable rubber clothing, costumes, masks and much more.  Literally it is like painting your clothes on your body and you don’t even have to worry about size!




Latex Body paint adds an extra touch of naughtiness when used for sexy clothing, for night clubbing, or preparing a made to measure Halloween custom.  But it is also used to create body artwork and special effect make up on its own or with the aid of silicon prop.  The possibilities are endless depending on the expertise and imagination of the person applying it. 


To learn more about latex body paint and how to apply it click here

Why try Latex Body Paint?

• Liquid latex body coating naturally shrinks approximately 3%, creating that sensuous "Second Skin" sensation that all true liquid latex enthusiasts love to experience.

• After removing the dried liquid latex coating, your skin will be left with a ‘silky smooth’ feel. 

Ballet Boots pain or pleasure

I don’t know if the Marquis de Sade ever wore ballet boots (yes, some men do!) but I share his opinion, “It is always by way of pain one arrives at pleasure”.



A couple of weeks ago I got a very exciting present, a pair of red ballet boots.  I had never worn ballet boots before, so I wasn’t quite sure what to expect from them.  I had heard that they were painful to wear; I had heard that you could even permanently damage your feet if you use them for too long periods of time or if you wear the wrong size.  But none of those comments put me off; I was just dead excited about wearing my first pair of ballet boots.    





If you have never heard about ballet boots before, just look at my photo wearing them.  Aren’t they lovely?


 

If you have never heard of Ballet boots before now, Ballet boots are a type of extreme high heel.  The heel is usually 7 inches (18 centimetres) or more, depending on your shoe size.  They are very uncomfortable to wear –to say the least- they can even be very painful as you are standing on your toes and your foot is fully stretched which can cause cramping on your calves.  
  
So why does anyone wear them?  The answer is simple, for pain and pleasure.  Ballet boots act for many as a fetish object for sexual gratification heightening the erotic appeal with the elements of bondage and submission.  

Ballet boots are not meant to be worn like everyday high heel shoes; they are used mainly for BDSM play.  They are mainly worn by a submissive or a slave as they are very restrictive.  But they can also be worn by masochist tops.  


I have worn mine first out of curiosity to see how it felt to be so restricted, but I admit that I also wore them as a fetish fashion accessory.  








If they caused ME pain and discomfort, I made sure that they had a similar effect –if not worst- on the sub that was worshipping my ballet boots!  

 

If you too want to wear ballet boots I have gather here some tips, to make your experience more enjoyable!