Leather dresses

Leather dresses are glamorous; they feel luxurious against your skin.  They look expensive and extremely top quality.  Leather clothing is a delight to the senses for its soft touch and its unmistakable scent.  Thankfully for all leather lovers, Leather dresses are a must have this season.

If you are seriously into fashion and kink you need at least one leather dress or leather skirt in your wardrobe and take advantage that now you can use it not only for kinky do’s but also for everyday wear.  Now you can wear your leather dress to the office, to a business lunch of for clubbing.  It all depends on how you accessorize your leather dress. 

To help you find the most alluring leather dresses Joanna Lark has selected for her exclusive online store 2 “must haves” for this season.  Make sure you check them out, they are hot, they are sexy and above all they are made with the best quality leather available.  

Leather Dress With Lycra Insert

The first leather dress from Joanna Lark's online store is the Leather Dress With Lycra Inserts.  This dress was selected by Vogue magazine for a photo session with a very famous singer and songwriter.  This leather dress is cut to flatten your stomach and push up your breasts.

Black Mini Dress In Leather

The second dress is a very naugthy number.  The Black Mini Dress In Leather.  Made with top quality soft leather and designed to turn heads with its cheeky cut, this dress can be as naughty as you want it to be.  The frontal “openings” on the dress can be adjusted with a buckle to assure a perfect fit while on the back you can choose your level of exposure with a zip

A leather dress is an investment, if properly cared for, you will be able to wear it for years and it will still look its best. 

Caring for your latex clothing

If you are new to wearing latex you must know that you have to take special care of your latex clothes if you want them to last. A properly cared for latex outfit can last for years.  To keep your latex clothing in good condition you must ensure that it is handled with care.  

Here are some helpful tips to keep your latex clothes in good condition:

1. Do not pull your latex clothing because latex tears very easily.
2. Do not apply perfume, body sprays or oils when wearing your latex clothing.  Latex can be affected by all of those as well as any other liquids.
3. Always use plenty of talc on the inside of the garment when you are putting on your latex clothing.
4. Long fingernails can be hazardous as latex tears very easily.
5. Light coloured latex can stain very easily, take extra care.
6. Keep away from extreme heat.  Direct contact with radiators, candles, open fires, etc, will melt your latex clothes.
7. Keep your latex clothes clean.  Sweat (salt and water) weaken latex; make sure you wash your latex after use.
8. When removing your garments wash them with lukewarm water and rinse them thoroughly in the shower.  Turn them inside out and allow drying.  Preferably hang it on a plastic hanger to allow drying.  Be careful not to leave your garment in water for too long.
9. Once dried the latex garment should be thoroughly dried and powdered with talc on the inside,
10. Do not expose to direct sunlight to avoid discolouring your latex.
11. Store your latex clothes in a cool, dry place out of the light, covered by a black bin liner.
12. Each time you wear your latex garment put more talc on the inside.
13. Polish the exterior of your latex clothes only when necessary, silicone sprays and lubricants used to make latex shine will make it almost impossible to repair if needed. 

 

Why do I wear latex clothes?

Latex fascinates people because most of the time when worn it tends to be skin-tight, producing a "second skin" effect with the added bonus of having a strong hold of your body, therefore redefining your silhouette, a bit like a corset. 

To learn more about why and how I wear my latex click here 

Are You Gagging For It?

Ever wondered how to play with gags? Now you can learn from the experts.  Learn here everything you need to know about gags from what type of gag to go for, to the fundamental rules to using gags safely

Are You Gagging For It? Countess De Jager Tells You How To Do It…

Remember that There are a several types of gags on the market and some can be found at Joanna Lark’s bondage store a gag, if used in the right way can involve sexual arousal and gratification towards sexual behavior by consenting adults. 

Floozie me and Liberation

Someone asked me the other day about my favourite shops in London.  The answer is that I have many but among my favourite ones I can mention Floozie me and Liberation.

Floozie me must be one of the cutest sex-shops I have ever seen.  Located at 23 Islington Green, London N1 8DU, Flozzie me is a provocative combination of eroticism and sophistication.  Every time I enter Floozie me I feel as if I am entering a boudoir because it is exquisitely decorated and the shop assistants are amazingly inviting and friendly.  The first time I went in with Joanna Lark, Gary the owner made me immediately feel at home.  He made us a cup of coffee and let us browse through delicate lingerie, kinky shoes, outsized sex toys and fetish gear as if we were in our own home.  

Costume at Floozie Me

A big surprise at the Floozie Me basement

If you want to visit Floozie me, you can enquiry about opening hours on 020 7226 8095.  On the top floor you will find top quality lingerie, shoes and boots from Joanna Lark’s collection, naughty costumes and “nicks & nacks” like the “Tickle her pink” clitoral pleasure gel or the tightening gels.  On the bottom floor you will find all the “harder” stuff like sex toys, dvds and fetish gear.  We always have lots of fun every time we visit Floozie me, whether it is trying on some PVC clothing, or trying out the leather equipment like masks, restraints and other kinky things; or just to have a chat with the friendly shop assistants who are always willing to help and advise you on their products.  

Floozie Me

Another of my favourite shops is Liberation in Covent Garden.  Located at 49 Shelton St

London WC2H 9HE, Liberation has an amazing Fetish basement.  If you are into latex then Liberation is the place to visit as it offers the complete range of Libidex latex wear as well as other leading rubber labels.  In Liberation, you can buy latex clothes either off the rails or you can order your own made-to-measure latex gear.  Liberation also stocks a thrilling choice of pervy collectables, accessories and gifts - something to suit all tastes and every desire! 

If you happen to be near Covent Garden, do not miss a visit to Liberation, especially to the sales rail which is always loaded with a fantastic selection of rubberwear at bargain prices.

My sissy maid: benita

Hello this is Goddess Mistress Anath's sissy benita.

Last week I was lucky enough to have seen Mistress Anath on her webcam, words cannot describe how beautiful and amazing she was but im going to have a good go....

Her voice and looks really do compare to that of a goddess, I was so excited to talk with her my little cock straining in its chastity device at such true beauty before my very eyes.

I was nervous at first then when she started to instruct me I got so excited and so turned on, I'm so lucky to be her sissy slave, her looks are stunning and her voice is so sexy, instantly I felt overpowered and brain washed willing to do anything she told me to do.

I know now that she has so much control over pathetic worthless excuses of men like myself she is a true Goddess.

Her face and body are so attractive I would of done anything for her, I would love to worship her body and her perfect bottom.

After we had spoke I realized that I want to commit to her fully as her slave. I'm sissy benita here to serve her in any way she see's fit.

I really do feel so lucky to be in the position that I am in, I'm not ashamed in anyway at all after seeing her its made me so much more eager to serve and please her.

Mitress Anath with her whipp

Mistress Anath is so perfect in every way, she's a fine woman my eyes lit up when she appeared on the screen it was hypnotizing as she was smiling at her sissy I couldn't control myself and started to touch my pathetic manhood through its cage.....Mistress then said with authority ''sissy stop touching'' I instantly did as I was told, not wanting to upset and displease my Goddess.

I can say now Mistress Anath has her slave like putty in her hands. Im going to do Anything and everything Mistress tells me to do, I know we are apart but I feel such a bond and eagerness to serve and please her, I can assure her any tasks she sets they will be carried out immediately with great thoroughness, After seeing the Goddess Mistress Anath my mind is under her spell and control, a woman of such beauty can only be a Goddess she is my superior in every way shape and form. 

Mistress Anath im at your feet begging for more Ma'am......

Your sissy Benita x x x

Meeting Goddess Alexia

In the past few weeks I have had the opportunity to meet one of the youngest and most sophisticated Dominatrix in London, Goddess Alexia.  A lady for whom Domination is not only her profession, but her lifestyle, a form of art, a form of therapy (as it brings balance to her client’s life) and of course a form of discovering new means of pleasure.  

Meeting Goddess Alexia has been an eye opener for someone like me who is so new to the fetish scene.  With Goddess Alexia I have learnt one of the most important things about being on the scene: you must be responsible.  Being a Dominatrix is not only about CP and domination, being a Dominatrix involves taking care of your subs as much as you do of yourself.  As she puts it, “only when you learn to control yourself can you dominate others.”

Another thing that I have learnt in the past few weeks is that BDSM is a lifestyle and those who choose to follow it should enjoy it without asking themselves so many questions.  I mean, most newbies enter the BDSM world in search for answers to their tendencies, they try to understand why they like dominating others or being dominated by others; but that is a distraction.  There are no good answers to that question.  Instead of wasting time and effort in trying to understand the basics of human nature, we should just be ourselves and enjoy it. 

Ever since I entered the BDSM world, I have found a new me, a more assertive woman in all aspects of my life; a more relaxed woman with her sexuality and most importantly new ways of pleasure for myself and those who are now following me.   BDSM has opened a new world for me.  I know I am only starting to explore this path, but thanks to new friends like Joanna Lark and Alexia I am enjoying every minute of it.

Goddess Alexia

If you want to meet Goddess Alexia you can find her here where she reveals her secrets in one of her most intimate interviews.  Be careful though and enter at your own risk, I cannot guarantee that you will come out untouched from Goddess Alexia’s spell…

 Mistress Alexia

Want to be my slave?

Hello everyone, my name is Ben / sissy. My Mistress has not come up with a new name to call me yet, but she will in a few days and then i shall refer to myself as that. 

Im so happy to tell you all that i'am now Mistress Anath's sissy maid i have just taken photo's for Mistress to put on her facebook page and im writing this as a task and to worship her. im so lucky to be given this great challenge and will do anything she asks of me, she is so sexy a true goddess over men and she rightfully has that control over me, im going to make her so happy humiliating myself to please her.

i'm 24 years of age fully shaved and going to love being her sissy maid doing anything im ordered to do, don t you think im so lucky? i mean look at her isnt she just a .....GODDESS!

im a pathetic excuse of a man and Mistress will mold me into whatever she wants through training and tasks, she will have me right in her hands like putty before long i can guaranty it. il be willing to do anything for her, and she knows it...dont you Mistress?

Mistress has the most amazing body legs pert little bum so hot!!

im on my knee's waiting for the next instructions Mistress hope you are pleased with your slave Ma'am, good bye every one for now.............

Mistress Anath's sissy maid xxx

Fancy a red Corset ?

Red is my favourite colour. I have red dresses, red boots, red underwear and outerwear. The only thing I don’t have red is the hair, which is the reason why I look stunning in red. I have natural dark hair and when dressed in red I just look fantastic; the combination of dark hair flowing carelessly over my shoulders and down my back teamed up with the bright red of my clothes are simply awesome.

Here I’ll introduce you to some of my favourite Red corsets and I’ll even tell you where you can get them if you feel like having a torrid encounter.

My all time favourite red corset comes from Joanna Lark's store.  It is the Burlesque Red Corset (photo on the right).   

This red corset just shouts vintage and romance while it gives you an awesome silhouette. Joanna Lark’s corsets are made to last and make a lasting impression and although her corsets invite you to naughty games, she is not playing when choosing the best available corsets to give you an hourglass figure. 

 

For more of my favourite red corsets you can click here

where you will find red leather corsets, red Reversible corset, red PVC corsets and of course the romantic red satin corset for that special date!

 

 

 

What is Latex Body paint?

Latex Body Painting
  

Liquid Latex is a rubber that is initially packaged in liquid form.  It self dries in about 5 to 10 minutes when painted directly onto the skin or over clothing forming a sheet of latex on any surface of any shape. 
It is fantastic to create custom wearable rubber clothing, costumes, masks and much more.  Literally it is like painting your clothes on your body and you don’t even have to worry about size!




Latex Body paint adds an extra touch of naughtiness when used for sexy clothing, for night clubbing, or preparing a made to measure Halloween custom.  But it is also used to create body artwork and special effect make up on its own or with the aid of silicon prop.  The possibilities are endless depending on the expertise and imagination of the person applying it. 


To learn more about latex body paint and how to apply it click here

Why try Latex Body Paint?

• Liquid latex body coating naturally shrinks approximately 3%, creating that sensuous "Second Skin" sensation that all true liquid latex enthusiasts love to experience.

• After removing the dried liquid latex coating, your skin will be left with a ‘silky smooth’ feel. 

Ballet Boots pain or pleasure

I don’t know if the Marquis de Sade ever wore ballet boots (yes, some men do!) but I share his opinion, “It is always by way of pain one arrives at pleasure”.



A couple of weeks ago I got a very exciting present, a pair of red ballet boots.  I had never worn ballet boots before, so I wasn’t quite sure what to expect from them.  I had heard that they were painful to wear; I had heard that you could even permanently damage your feet if you use them for too long periods of time or if you wear the wrong size.  But none of those comments put me off; I was just dead excited about wearing my first pair of ballet boots.    





If you have never heard about ballet boots before, just look at my photo wearing them.  Aren’t they lovely?


 

If you have never heard of Ballet boots before now, Ballet boots are a type of extreme high heel.  The heel is usually 7 inches (18 centimetres) or more, depending on your shoe size.  They are very uncomfortable to wear –to say the least- they can even be very painful as you are standing on your toes and your foot is fully stretched which can cause cramping on your calves.  
  
So why does anyone wear them?  The answer is simple, for pain and pleasure.  Ballet boots act for many as a fetish object for sexual gratification heightening the erotic appeal with the elements of bondage and submission.  

Ballet boots are not meant to be worn like everyday high heel shoes; they are used mainly for BDSM play.  They are mainly worn by a submissive or a slave as they are very restrictive.  But they can also be worn by masochist tops.  


I have worn mine first out of curiosity to see how it felt to be so restricted, but I admit that I also wore them as a fetish fashion accessory.  








If they caused ME pain and discomfort, I made sure that they had a similar effect –if not worst- on the sub that was worshipping my ballet boots!  

 

If you too want to wear ballet boots I have gather here some tips, to make your experience more enjoyable! 

Fetish Fashion: The red latex dress lady Gaga wore to Meet the Queen

Lady Gaga Met the Queen wearing a red latex dress from European Fetish Award designer Atsuko Kudo

For those of you not familiar with the fetish scene or fetish fashion, Atsuko Kudo is a leading designer of Couture Latex clothing, winner of the European Fetish Award for best fetish design 2008/2009.


So now that you know Atsuko Kudo, guess what?
When Lady Gaga met the Queen she wore an amazing red latex Atsuko Kudo dress especially designed for her performance at the 2009 Royal Variety Performance.


This lady is certainly bringing Fetish Couture into mainstream wear and Royal circles.

 

Get the Lady Gaga Fetish look without being over the top

If you love the Lady Gaga outfits, but you cannot afford or indeed dare to wear those beautiful designer dresses, there are lots of little details that you can incorporate in your wardrobe to get that sexy fetish look without looking over the top.

Add PVC or leather gloves for a funky, mysterious and sexy look

For example, look at the opening scene of the Bad Romance video, notice the fingerless white opera gloves. I have a pair of these fingerless pvc gloves in black, a present from a Dominatrix friend, they are perfect to add a touch of glamour and naughtiness to any outfit. I have worn mine on several occasions, from nightclubs to more formal appointments with great success. Just a glimpse of these gloves under my winter coat and people are already excited wondering what else I am wearing under my coat.

Lady Gaga's Fetish Fashion

Latex, PVC and Leather clothing and accessories

 

For a long time latex and PVC clothing have discreetly belonged to fetish enthusiasts, while leather has been the favourite outwear for bikers. But lately, leather, latex and PVC clothing are coming strong to mainstream fashion and becoming increasingly popular. 

 

One of the reasons while latex and PVC clothing are coming out of the fetish scene to become high street mainstream wear is because celebrities have been sporting outfits in these materials not only for their public appearances but also for everyday wear as is the case of Lady Gaga who has been seen walking around the streets of London wearing latex and PVC clothes.

Latex clothes and Fetish Fashion are now Mainstream fashion

Given the increasing popularity of Latex, mainstream media such as Maxim have portrayed Lady Gaga wearing clothing and accessories that previously only belonged to the fetish and BDSM scene. Between the two of them, they are bringing fetish accessories latex and PVC clothing into mainstream fashion.


Thigh High Latex Boots and rubber clothes are incredibly sexy, they are like a second skin and sometimes can even be perceived as a type of bondage like in the “bondage style dresses” worn by Lady gaga in some of her videos, ie. the black bondage style dress worn in the Paparazzi video.
 

 Lady Gaga's Bad Romance video

Latex and PVC clothes and accessories are becoming widely spread to the point that now they are not limited to fetish or sex shops. 

Nowadays you can find latex and PVC clothing in mainstream sites such as ebay and Amazon, even mainstream fashion designers are using these materials for their collections as was seen lately at London’s fashion week.

 

 

Increasing your breast size

Increasing your breast size with essential oils: Aromatherapy

Some plants contain phyto hormones which work in a similar way to the human hormones which are responsible for many functions including the development of the breasts. Fenugreek and fennel seed oils are the most common oils used for this purpose. Geranium oil is also supposed to be very rich in phyto hormones.

Recipe for breast enhancing oil: Mix 

• 9 drops geranium oil
• 16 drops ylang ylang oil
• in 50 ml base oil like sweet almond oil.

Massage twice a day on the chest wall and wait for results.
Warning: Consult an aromatherapist before you try essential oils.

 

Breast enhancement creams

These contain similar ingredients to the breast enhancement pills and have even fewer side effects since they are applied topically. They also have toning and uplifting ingredients.

Change you diet

You could also try consuming sesame seeds and fenugreek seeds in your daily menu.  Incorporate foods rich in calcium, phosphorus, iron and proteins.
You might also want to try taking food supplements such as evening primrose oil and vitamin E.

The Wonderbra

If everything fails do not despair, there is always the wonderful wonderbra!


You could also try one of La Senza's Double gel bra which are very natural to the eye and to the touch. The Double gel bras -like the one on the right- are designed to boost your assets and aid shape definition! This fabulous bra will give you the ultimate cleavage with its gel padding concealed in the smooth moulded cups.

Breast enhancement pills... Do they work?

 

I had a friend who, embarrassed with her A cup breast size, tried some breast enhancing pills.  She did not notice that much difference in her breast size but during the treatment she developed a very sexy voice and an increase in libido.  A few months later while we were shopping for new bras for her protruding breast she announced to me that she was pregnant.   Whether it was the pills or the pregnancy that increased her boob size we will never know. 

If you are willing to try breast enhancement pills then try the herbal variety since they have very little side effects. The herbal pills generally contain herbs such as fenugreek, dong quai, and fennel seeds. These herbs contain phytoestrogens which are known to stimulate mammary tissue growth.  At the very least they will clean your complexion.


Bust-Boom!TM is an all-in-one, concentrated formula that is clinically proven to work in 9 out of 10 women. Just one fast-acting capsule a day is guaranteed to give you noticeable results in as little as one week with no negative side effects.
Bust-Boom!TM is also perfect for women who wish to "turn back the clock" and uplift their sagging bosom. 


Why spend a fortune for a plastic, fake looking appearance when you can have the real thing for a fraction of the cost?

Football Fever: Football fashion for women

Football Fever: Football fashion for women

Hey girls, Summer is here and with it the Football World cup. The time has come again when men will be sitting on their sofas, beer in one hand and remote control on the other one while you struggle to catch their attention. Does this sound familiar? Does world cup bring relationship trouble, tears, arguments and breakups for you? It doesn’t need to be that way you know. Have you never heard the saying “If you can’t beat them, join them”? Well that is exactly what I suggest you do this summer to rise above the Football World cup victoriously.


Do you know that there is a whole range of Football World cup products just for women? You can find anything from fancy costumes for celebration parties to knickers, nightwear and accessories for the more intimate moments when you want to score a goal with your man.
No more despairing, find your world cup fever apparel in here


And of course, don't forget to have a look at the FIFA 2010 Word Cup - hottest players.

How to get Bigger breasts naturally

Few women are truly happy about the size of their breasts, thinking that they are either too big or too small. The discontentment can cause feelings of insecurity and unhappiness which can lead to an impairment of sexual pleasure.
If you are worried about your breasts being too small and you would like to increase your breast size, basically there are two main ways in which you can do it: Surgically, and Non-surgically. Breast augmentation surgery can be a big investment and is not always recommended as it has its own drawbacks plus it is costly and time consuming.
Among the non surgical methods for bust enhancement, the most common ones are:

• Exercise.
• Massage.
• Aromatherapy.
• Breast enhancement pills and creams.
• Nutritional supplements. 

Exercise To increase your breast size

Exercise does not actually increase the breast size but can help strengthen breast tissue and also help tighten and tone them, giving them a fuller and firmer look. The breast is supported by chest muscles. If these muscles are toned, the breast is likely to remain healthy and in good shape.   Push-ups, bench press, and flies are the best known exercises for strengthening chest muscles. Do them for at least 3 months for long lasting results.

Another form of exercise that is great to strengthen the pectoral muscles is swimming.  Make sure you wear an “itsy bitsy, teenie weenie, yellow polka-dot bikini” to do your swimming, it might not help in increasing your boob size but it will make you plenty of new friends who don’t care about your bust size.  

I have also read that certain Yoga positions are good for breast augmentation.  Certain poses such as Ardha Chakrasana, Half-Wheel, Baddha Padmasana or Restrained Lotus, are supposed to increase breast size.  Frankly, I have not tried this method and I don’t know anyone who has tried it.  I cannot even pronounce the name of the poses, never mind twisting myself into obscene positions that might only fill my tummy for 9 months if my boyfriend finds me unaware in one of those.

Massage

Massaging is a popular risk-free breast enlargement technique adopted by many women across the world due to its quick effectiveness and the pleasure that comes from it.
Personally I only experienced this technique later on in my life.  The nuns at school had sworn to me that if a boy touched my breasts before marriage, they would go all saggy, so I kept my treasures to myself until I met a less prudish friend who laughed at me when I mentioned that.  In revenge, after trying the “sinners” technique without fear of burning in hell, not only did I become a happier woman, but my treasures also increased in size!


The aim of a proper breast massage –not the cheap squeezing that a boyfriend does in the back of his car- is to flush out toxic wastes as well as to increase blood circulation throughout the bust.  In theory, a massage helps in augmenting the supply of essential nutrition to the tissues and it tones up pectoral muscles, supports ligaments, and brings back lost elasticity, thereby enhancing size and shape.


I was going to include a few videos here, but I gather that there are too many prudes  around who, like the nuns at my school, would be horrified at the sight of a breast massage.  But don’t worry, there are plenty of examples online and if in doubt just ask an experienced boyfriend.  Even if your breasts don’t grow you will have a big smile on your face.  

The Wonderbra

If everything fails do not despair, there is always the wonderful wonderbra!


You could also try one of La Senza's Double gel bra which are very natural to the eye and to the touch. The Double gel bras -like the one on the right- are designed to boost your assets and aid shape definition! This fabulous bra will give you the ultimate cleavage with its gel padding concealed in the smooth moulded cups.

What to wear for a Boat Party?

Sexy Sailor Costumes for a Boat Party

Black and Pink Sailor

Those of you who follow me know how much I love the feeling of leather, latex and vinyl. This is why I am rather partial to this sexy Black and Pink Vinyl Sailor costume. 


The costume includes a zip-up vinyl dress with pink detail and pink anchors appliquéd onto the collars and hip pockets. To complete the look, there is also included a sailor hat to match the dress, vinyl black belt with pink piping, wrist cuffs and thong with star appliqué.


This is a very exclusive outfit usually sold only by Trashy and its only shop in Los Angeles. Trashy’s outfits have been spotted on the Hollywood scene on celebrities such as Madonna and Pamela Anderson. Trashy is a private, members-only store, but thanks to Angels Fancy Dress you can now be one of the select few to own one of these exclusive costumes


Should I be the black sailor?

Where did I get my red military catsuit

Every time I wear my red military catsuit I have people coming up to say how stunning I look in it. I wore it for the first time at the Torture Garden birthday party in London, it was a winner, especially as I went in with my sister in mischief Joanna Lark wearing a similar catsuit in black. We caused a sensation; you only need to look at the TG photos to see how severe and sexy we were looking that day.


After that I wore it for the London Alternative Market, where it also caused a big stir.


Do you want to know the secret about this red PVC catsuit?
It is simple; it is made with the best quality PVC which means that it hugs your curves while at the same time moulding your figure to that of a stunning temptress. The thin belts around the waist act as a corset, slimming you down and of course giving you that amazing corseted feeling that only corset wearers know.


As soon as I slip in my PVC catsuit I immediately feel sexy and powerful and this feeling projects an image. On top of that the suit is so comfortable, that once I am wearing it, I don’t want to take it off.

Do you want to know where I got it? I am not sure I should tell you… At the moment I am the only one wearing this exclusive number.




Well I tell you but you have to promise to keep it a secret...
I got it via Joanna Lark, yes, this amazing military catsuit is available from Joanna Lark's online boutique. 
Have a look, you will not be dissapointed! 

Training a slave: Public humilliation.

Training With Miss Anath


The day after Club Pedestal I was reading a book “Training with Miss Abernathy” a present I had received the night before from one of  Mistress Joanna Lark’s subs, when I found a note with my new slaves’ phone number. I was curious about his capabilities, so I sent him a message ordering him to come and pick me up immediately to entertain me. After all... what else can you do on a Friday afternoon in London?

 I think that Londoners are not use to seeing a woman walking with a personal servant, we had lots of people looking at us in shock.  I enjoyed having my new personal slave opening doors for me, carrying my bags, serving me as a seat, disposing of my chewing gum (in his mouth), and taking care of my every step so other people wouldn’t get to close to me.


Do you want to know what happened after? Let's say that I had fun trying on some public humilliation...


You can find more about how I train my "wannabes" in Training with Miss Anath







At the Natural History Museum:

What is CBT ?

I was browsing through Joanna Lark’s website today to see what new and exciting toys she had added to her collection when I found a strange looking implement for CBT called The Humbler.

 

New as I am to BDSM, it didn’t matter how long or in what angle I looked at this toy, I couldn’t imagine how to use it.

For a start, I had never heard the term CBT before so I contacted Mistress Joanna Lark trying to find an answer to my question.   

So, what is CBT?  Well it is simply Cock and Ball Torture.  Easy, isn’t it?  Yes, Joanna always makes it sound fun and easy with her explanations.   

To some extent I had already practised some of this but I didn’t know that there was a name and a whole set of toys and rules for this practice.  I didn’t know that when I slapped a man’s genitals with my riding crop I was practising CBT. 

Like most BDSM practices, there are many ways of CBT depending on the pain threshold of the person involved.  CBT can go from simply causing discomfort by squeezing a man’s genitals with one’s hand as if squeezing a rubber ball, to slapping, pinching, using clamps, weights, electric stimulation, binding, waxing, etc.  It all depends on your wicked imagination and your sub’s pain threshold.

 

Warning: During CBT practices the penis and testicles can be easily or permanently damaged.  Mistakes can lead to ruptures, tears, or other disfiguring and disabling results.  Caution must be observed when practicing this activity.

For more information on CBT you can visit malesubmission.com